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Get Your Kid Active

July 20, 2011 in Ask the Gym Teacher, Insider Insight by Tammy Cowan

Greetings!  Summer…freedom…play and fun!   Here are some ideas from your resident PE teacher to keep your child active and ready for school when it starts.  Some of the ideas are specific to students with special needs…but most of them can be modified for any/all kids (and adults!). Quickest note….your kids want to be active with YOU!

Kids with ADD or ADHD do better when they are active in the morning.  I have suggested to parents of younger students when their child is diagnosed with ADD or ADHD  that they start their day with some activity.  One great idea is to give your child some quick fuel with a banana, apple or some juice and head outside for a 20-30 minute walk, run or bike ride.  This burns off some steam that will help them concentrate the rest of the day.  This is a great habit to get into during the summer…and I strongly suggest that you do it during the school year so that your student has the focus that they need early in their school day.

If they had PE over the school year ask THEM to show YOU their warm-up routine.  Most school PE programs start with some kind of warm-up routine.  Let them come up with one for your time together at home and let them actively teach you what they did and know.  Do the exercises with them.  Come up with some of your own….do them every day.  Instead of TV!

If they are able to do cardio…walking, biking, running. It’s easy to start a chart to track how far they run or how many minutes.  Have a reward at the end of a certain milestone. Maybe a family goal? Time together for a special activity or a medal or certificate.

Turn the local park/playground and park equipment into an obstacle course.  Bring some flags/cones/ribbons and let your child mark a route to take. You’ll probably attract other kids so it can be good social time, too. Time them…kids love to be timed and try to beat their times.

Invite other kids over for game day.  Tag can be adapted for any ability.  Kids love LOVE relay races.  Come up with goofy things for them to do/carry/walk with.  Hop on one foot.  Have them go down and back around a marker backwards.  Bouncing a balloon.  Speaking of which; balloons are a great way to get a kid out and active.  Blow one up…tie to a string (or don’t) and watch them play!

KITES!  Go fly one. Good for any child with every ability.

Have all kinds of stuff around that they might need to be active.  Balls, jump ropes.  Make sure that the bike tires are pumped up, or have the push trikes ready to go. Getting your kid active could be as simple as letting them pull a wagon around…collect sticks, rocks or leaves along the way (great for gross motor fun!) or be brave and let them pull you!

What Your Future Attorney Will Want to See

September 9, 2010 in Ask the Special Ed Lawyer, Insider Insight by dianaglick

Mom and SonThis is a rather cynical title. But, in case you ever need to seek the advice of an attorney or bring litigation against the school district over your child’s special education program, there are certain documents that you will want to be able to locate and present to an attorney. On a less cynical note, it’s always good to have an organized binder with your child’s important documentation. There are professional organizers who comment on this blog about organizing your life when you have a child with special needs and nothing in this column should be construed as going against their advice. This is more of an attempt to piggy-back on the concept of organization from a legal perspective.

Some of my clients have saved every scrap of paper related to their child, but somewhere along the way became completely overwhelmed with trying to keep it all sorted. I can sympathize with this—you start by throwing a few IEPs in a folder, they multiply when you’re not looking, and suddenly you have paper coming out your ears and no sense of how to organize it.

What to Save

My recommendation is to save the following for the duration of your child’s K-12 education:

* Official report cards and progress reports (computer printouts from online grade programs can also be helpful if you regularly consult these services for updates on your child)
* Assessment Plans
* IEPs
* Assessments
* Written communication with the school or school district (including emails)

Other items of that may or may not be important, depending on the case:

* Notices of Meeting—only if the District is continually canceling meetings on you, or has a habit of convening meetings with very little notice. If you have regular, timely meetings, a notice of meeting itself is not going to be important.
* Procedural Safeguards—Districts are required by law to provide you a copy of these and some people have enough for several bird cages. I do advise parents to read these and ask questions about anything that is unclear. However, as long as you have a recent copy from the District, there is no need to continue accumulating them. Sometimes, you can even save a tree and decline them at the IEP meeting. Just remember that you will be held to knowing and understanding your rights whether you accept or decline a copy.
* Mental Health records—including progress notes from treatment, any Discharge Summaries if your child has experienced a psychiatric hospitalization, and statements, receipts and cancelled checks for your out-of-pocket expenses.
* Record of any outside services—if you seek out private tutoring or educational services for your child, keep a record of the services received, including any pre-tests or progress summaries, as well as statements, receipts and cancelled checks.

How to Save It

A simple three-ring binder with tabs separating out the school years is great way to keep your documents organized. Within the section for each school year, you can group the documents as I’ve outlined above (assessments, IEPs, report cards, etc.). Another alternative is to have a separate binder for each group of documents and then organize them according to date within each binder. Either one of these solutions will work well over the long term and will allow you easy access to documents as you need them.

What to Bring to an Intake Meeting

Special education lawsuits have a two-year statute of limitations, unless your state law specifies a different time period. State statutes of limitations prevail over the federal two-year statute and there are states with longer and shorter timeframes. California’s statute of limitations is two years, so in most cases, our office wants to see all the documentation described above from the last three school years—documents from the period covered by the statute of limitations, plus one year before that. This allows us to see what services were in place when the statute of limitations began and will usually allow us to see a triennial assessment and review.

If your attorney suspects that you have a case for pleading additional school years outside of the statute of limitations, he or she can ask for additional documentation from you and from the school district.

Disclaimer:

This column reflects the views of Diana B. Glick in her individual capacity. It does not necessarily represent the views of her law firm or her clients, and is not sponsored or endorsed by them. The purpose of this column is to assist in dissemination of information about federal special education law, but no representation is made about the accuracy of the information. The information contained in this column is provided only as general information for education purposes, and topics may or may not be updated subsequent to their initial posting.

By using this column you understand that this information is not provided in the course of an attorney-client relationship and is not intended to constitute legal advice. This blog site should not be used as a substitute for competent legal advice from a licensed attorney in your state. This column is not intended to be advertising and Diana B. Glick does not seek to represent anyone desiring representation based upon viewing this blog site in a state where this blog site fails to comply with all laws and ethical rules of that state.

What frustrates me?

September 8, 2010 in Ask the Occupational Therapist, Insider Insight by Dr. Tiffany Showalter

As someone who works with children with special needs on a daily basis, I can only imagine how difficult it is to have a child or children at home with these needs. Doing everything you can for your child and keeping sanity in your house must be extremely difficult, resulting in many frustrations of your own. What I want to discuss are my frustrations from the other side, in an attempt to help you as the parent understand where we are coming from.Frustration

1. I enjoy frequent communication with you about your child and enjoy even more trying to help you problem solve an issue your child might be having at home or at school. What frustrates me is when I put forth great effort to help you with suggestions and activities for you to do at home and find out later that you haven’t even tried any of them and are still asking for help.

2. What frustrates me is when a parent expects me to fix their child. You have a wonderful child with both strengths and weaknesses. My role as your child’s therapist is to help your child participate and be successful with completing certain skills that they are having difficulty doing within his/her abilities. It is like the saying; “there is more than one way to get a job done”. In many cases, my job is to find that other way.

3. I know parents are often not experts when it comes to child development and developmental milestones. I can help you there and provide tables. What frustrates me is when you are expecting skills beyond your child’s developmental level. A simple web search can yield what is appropriate or ask me for that information…I am happy to provide you with it.

4. As a parent of one child with another one on the way, I am sure there will be many days when I compare my girls. What frustrates me is when you compare the skills of one child to the next. Even if your children were the same age, had the same abilities and disabilities, and participated in the same programs, there are still countless factors that contribute to your child’s development. It is unfair to compare them.

5. I haven’t had to deal with developmental pediatricians or other medical personnel explaining my child’s diagnosis to me, but what frustrates me is when I have to explain something essential to your child’s prognosis with you when you should have been made aware long before ever meeting me. For example, I have had to explain tone at least 4 times this school year. These were all situations where the children were receiving ongoing medical interventions to address such tone. The parents asked me what we could do to “fix” the tone. I am writing an article on tone itself but in a nut shell here it is. Tone is neurological and can only be permanently “fixed” with surgery or medicines. Various techniques including tendon tapping, casting, icing, vibration, and gentle rocking to mention a few can only temporarily affect tone. More appropriately would be to modify the task that the tone is impacting to increase your child’s success. In two of these four conversations, the parent was brought to tears in learning this information. I think knowledge is power and am happy to provide you with such, but how frustrating that the doctor did not explain this to you. I would cry too.

Just letting off a little steam! I really do love my job!

Disclaimer: I hope you enjoyed reading this article. Please remember you are reading this information of your own free will and are taking the information at your own risk. The author is the legal copyright holder of this material it may not be used, reprinted, or published without my written consent. This information is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not intended to provide or circumvent medical, legal or other professional advice.

Special Education Students Disciplined Twice As Often

August 17, 2010 in Special Needs News by Admin Dawn

The first time Spencer Klintworth was suspended from school, his mother was astonished: The kindergartner has brain damage and is in special education. Then it happened again. And again. By the end of the 2009-2010 school year, he’d been sent home by the Cypress-Fairbanks school district five times, Debbie Klintworth says.

Spencer’s experience isn’t unique. Special education students in Texas public schools are nearly twice as likely to be suspended as students in the general education population, according to a recent Texas Education Agency report to the Senate Committee on Education. The expulsion rate is also disproportionate: Though special education students make up just 10 percent of the enrollment in Texas public schools, they account for 21 percent of expulsions, according to the School-to-Prison Pipeline report published by Texas Appleseed, a nonprofit public interest law center.

via Special Education Students Disciplined Twice As Often — Texas Education Agency | The Texas Tribune.

Organizing…Specialized with Labels!

June 28, 2010 in Giveaways by Julia Roberts

Here we are…most of us are into our summer (non) routines and if you are like me, you are already wondering how your house got into the shape it is in. I love things that keep me organized!

I sent the kids to camp last week (separate ones, because I want to complicate things) and I was thrilled that I still had Mabel’s Labels leftover from a fundraiser at my daughter’s school a couple of years ago. I didn’t really believe that they’d withstand washing but the really do. Three years using the same lunch boxes (honestly, THREE YEARS) the personalized labels are still on them. I have no idea why the kids don’t want new lunch boxes but they don’t. The labels have also come in handy when my kids leave their stuff everywhere. A favorite hat of my son’s was returned directly into has hands by a teacher a few days after field day at the end of the school year.

Because we’re all about making life better we decided to hit a (non-heavy) topic for this week. We’re having a week of organization tips and gifts! We’re also happy to bring you a group dedicated to getting and staying organized! We’ve found the perfect person to lead our group…meet Julie Hough.

Julie Hough is the owner of The Ordered Home, a company that specializes in Professional Residential Organizing. From organizing closets to garages, bedrooms to kitchens, Julie loves it all! Organizing has been Julie’s passion for years; in fact one of Julie’s childhood memories is going to the department store with her mom and heading to the linen area to organize the sheets!

Julie grew up in the Pacific Northwest and for the past 10 years has lived in Chesterfield, MO. She’s been married to her husband for 18 years and has three children. Both of her boys are on the Autism Spectrum. Julie has been able to bring the worlds of Special Needs and Home Organization together not only for her family, but also for the many special needs families she has had the privilege to work with over the years.

Julie is a member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO), the NAPO St. Louis Chapter, and Faithful Organizers. She serves as Secretary on the Board of Directors and Executive Board for NAPO St. Louis.

We’re so happy Julie has taken on this week and this group! She’ll offer advice and solutions (and encouragement) to all of us. First things first, join the Organizing…Specialized group. Here’s the scoop for the week.

  • Read each day for tips and strategies on getting and staying organized!
  • Now that you’ve joined the group (you have joined, right?) you’ll be eligible for giveaways for the week!
  • Ask questions, give tips, and share your struggles with Julie and others in the group! That will not hurt your chances for winning a gift over the week!

Today’s giveaway to someone in the group is a set of Mabel’s Labels call the Colourful Essentials Combo – with

  • 30 Sticky Labels
  • 12 Shoe Labels
  • 2 Teeny Tags
  • 40 Iron-Ons or 70 Tag Mates

So, you’ll have to join the Organizing…Specialized Group to be eligible for the giveaways this week. Did I mention there will be giveaways each day? Joining is also the best way to get tips and tricks about organization from Julie, our new group leader. Join Julie and get organized!

The Shirt Less Chewed Giveaway

May 31, 2010 in Giveaways by Julia Roberts

Chewelry styles for big kids, otoAt the beginning of the school year my son was under an enormous amount of stress. He was under the care of doctors for depression and while he was doing slightly better – the depression was lifting – he was no where near where he deserved to be emotionally. A month into school when more was expected of him he started to chew his clothes. Honestly, it caught us off guard and we tried everything to reduce his stress levels.

His anxiety was very high and there wasn’t anything we were doing that was helping ease the anxiety. His anxiety also made him want to stay covered and he wore a jacket except when he slept. He chewed on the sleeves of his jacket(s) mostly, but also collars and sleeves of shirts. Long sleeves were his favorites. We did have a bit of success at with providing him washcloths and towels but they didn’t last either. He’d chew them and pull them apart and leave the remnants of his anxiety all around the house.

A chewy? Chewies? Their URL is Chewelry. I know, that’s clever, right? Such a perfect name for the line of chew necklaces – jewelry.

Back then I wish I had known about these chewies. Not the pink ones for him! But he would have gone for any of the cool “boy” colors. I would have ordered a few of them, just to save on clothing replacement costs.

Pierrette and Lorna, the good people at Kid Companions offered up two of them for us, a Blue Circle and Pink Heart. Luckily with proper mental health treatment, my boy’s anxiety is all but gone so he doesn’t need one anymore. But if you have child who chews why not leave a comment that you’d like one of these! Giveaway period ends Friday, June 5, at 5PST and remember, you must be registered at our site to win!

Here’s what their sites says about the particulars; what they are made of and about the special clasps that break away and why they made them in the first place.

Note from Dawn: I wish I’d known about these back when Madison was chewing her t-shirt collars to shreds!

Building Relationships with Special Ed Teachers & Schools

May 19, 2010 in From Julia, Latest Articles by Julia Roberts

As we are ending our school year, I’m thinking back to the last several months and what our family and most especially our kids have endured. A life-saving transplant for our daughter and days/weeks missed from school for medical testing and recovery and a mental breakdown for our son that culminated in his hospitalization in a psychiatric hospital.

Our public school, who already knew us well because of 6 years of education for our kids, readily supported us through it all. From administration to teachers, they all took an active part in our family’s recovery from the kidney transplant and subsequent mental illness diagnosis and treatment.

I’m often asked about our relationship with our school and special ed department and I am the first one to sing their praises. They are a dedicated, caring group of people with whom we would have likely not done as well as a family in crisis (or two) without their support.

The relationships are built out of mutual respect; their respect for me as the kids’ parent and mine for them as experienced educators. My relationship with them has grown and changed and I’m proud of how well we work together for the kids.

There’s nothing mystical about how well we work together. Like I said, mutual respect for each other.

But it’s not been without planning, tenacity, communication, and giving.

What I have done and what do I do to keep our relationship going in the right direction?

- I respect their knowledge. I have not taught children or children with challenges in the classroom. And in fact, could not, so I am not silent about that fact. I often give them sincere kudos for what they do and what they know.

- If I have a concern I put it in writing and if I feel we need a meeting, I ask for one with the parties that should be involved. I try to have a list of items I’d like to address and I try to send those ahead so they can prepare. I also will bring a list of questions and concerns with me.

-If I have a concern about a certain aspect of learning (we recently asked the school system to do psychological testing for Gage because it had never been done and since he was hospitalized I wanted to see how they could better help him learn) I ask them for options and I am usually prepared for what is available (but not always!).

- I try to make it convenient  on them for meetings. I try my best to be flexible, even if that means I have to be there at 7:15am (if you know me, you know I don’t like early morning meetings!).

- I tell the administration about the good work the teachers are doing. I send notes thanking teachers after successes. I have also sent thank you notes after discussions for changes in IEPs and for their willingness to try anything (the number of changes they’ve made for Gage would amaze you.) that might help my kids learn. I thank them a lot for being open to ideas!

- I give thoughtful gifts. I don’t spend a fortune. I might make something or buy something small, or include a gift card but it is always accompanied by a heartfelt note from me expressing how grateful I am and sometimes a picture from one of the kids.

- I’m involved in school. There are many ways I could be involved with school but I choose to handle Teacher Appreciation Week. It’s a week long thank you of trinkets and gifts and lunch and I spend a lot of time planning and executing it (with a co-chair, thank goodness). And even though it’s for all the teachers and staff, I often think of it as my personal way to show out team my appreciation. And my work there doesn’t go unnoticed. It means something to them that I am involved. I am not saying everyone needs to run a week long event, but there are many small things you can do all year long for the school…make copies for the classes, distribute mail, cover the front office phones once a week during lunch, just to name a few. Me being up there and visible makes it easy for quick conversations. It shows I’m engaged.

I do not have an adversarial relationship with anyone at the school. Have I hit it off completely with everyone? Not necessarily. Have I rubbed people the wrong way? Um, yes. But if I follow my rule for treating them with respect that usually gets us through and we come out better in the long run working together.

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